Who is the Enneagram Social Two? They are known to be leaders which isn’t common for a typical type 2. They are also very powerful and intellectual beings. In the spectrum, it is safe to say they are the most proud and ambitious subtype. This is why they go after superior positions like leadership roles and aim to accomplish great things.
This article talks about the Enneagram Social Two and their strengths and weaknesses. Let’s begin.
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Who Is The Enneagram Social Two
The typical enneagram social 2 is ambitious and loves power. They love leadership positions and love to leave a mark in all that they do or touch. This is why they lean into becoming CEOs, founders and strive to become top-level personnels wherever they are.
If there’s one thing about the Social two is that you are going to be impressed by them. They avoid mediocre and their intelligence can be admirable. However they are a bit more introverted than the other Twos but will put on a show when it’s required of them to build their powerful image.
The ES2s are very skillful and prefer working behind the scene with all their influence. In a group they could be in charge but wouldn’t put themselves out there if they do not want to. They care more about directing others to achieve something much bigger than them. This makes them get more respect and loyalty from their subordinates.
This enneagram subtype also believes in rewards. They believe it helps people attain their highest capacity and thus offers rewards for job well done. Another way to build trust, loyalty and friendship. They don’t do this consciously but they believe in the giving to get mentality and that doesn’t fail them often,
Let’s take a look at other characteristics
Notable Interesting Traits of The Enneagram Social One
They Are Highly Ambitious And Intelligent
This enneagram subtype as Mr honked above are highly ambitious and impressively intelligent. It can be hard to miss. They believe there’s a solution for everything and are great problem solvers. Even when it seems like there is no hope, they find a way to make it work. A leadership attribute that has its perks.
They are also very confident in their abilities and believe it’d be better if they had power to themselves. This can mean they engage in power struggles often just to prove themselves.
They Are More Introverted
How does a person who wants to lead be more introverted? Well they are introverted enough to have their alone time but will put up a show for the sake of their roles. But this doesn’t change the fact that they are a lot more introverted than the self preservation 2 and the sexual 2.
They do not necessarily hate people but they just love their space and aren’t afraid to create boundaries. They can be involved in so many activities while still maintaining their introversion which makes them excellent at observing and reading the room.
They Suppress Vulnerable Emotions
This enneagram subtype tends to deny emotions that expose their vulnerability such as fear, sadness, shame, envy and jealousy. Even when they try to express themselves, they don’t go all out as they don’t want to put off others around them. This can be bad as they may feel alone and self isolated to cope.
It becomes very unhealthy when this happens but yet again they do not engage in other people’s affairs but subconsciously just find a way to control them. They are indifferent to other people’s needs.
They Care About Validation
They can sadly become people pleasers if they do not watch themselves. Considering they went to get to the top, they will be willing to do what it takes even if they do not believe in the ideology. They believe they should have the power and will do what they need to till they get that.
The enneagram social twos constant need for validation can leave them in compromising situations and if they aren’t careful, there could be consequences. They also end up putting in a lot of hours at work in order to get what they want.
They Are Workaholics Who Enjoy Working Behind The Scenes
This enneagram subtype might like working but they very much enjoy doing it behind the scenes. They call all the shots but never come out publicly with only few people knowing this.
The ES2s are nothing like the Social Three who enjoy the spotlight and want to get their flowers. The ES2 just wants the power, you can keep the theatrics. They understand they must work hard if they want to attain success and do not take that lightly.
They Know How To Inspire Others
One of the greatest strengths of the enneagram social 2 is how much they can inspire others. They know just the right words to say and what to do in order for people to want to attain their best. Even just their presence alone can be quite influential.
They might not be very expressive with their emotions but they are very generous and loyal. They are also very competitive and work really hard especially when it’s healthy competition. What’s there not to love?
Work For The Enneagram Social Two
The enneagram Social two can be very interesting and influential but they can also be holding themselves back. Here is necessary work to be done to aid growth in this subtype.
- It is important to create important relationships with people which lets you bring out your vulnerable side without fear you might be putting them off. True friends do not laugh at you in a time of weakness but instead stand by you. It also helps when you care about their feelings and activities.
- You spend a lot of time encouraging those around you and building their confidence, that is good. But you are a lot more than that. You are human and you are allowed to make mistakes and learn from them too.
- Never forget the importance of work life balance. Constantly working to attain goals has its perks but forgoing the pleasures of your personal life can be very delusional. Spend time with your friends and family. They are the one who would miss you when you’re gone.
- There’s nothing wrong with having a little pride but knowing when it’s starting to override your judgment is very crucial to avoid crashing and burning.
